We've decided not go on with adoption process. It's taking forever. China is slow at their end. I'm getting older (I don't think Kate is, but I am). Who knows if and when the creeping slowness of the process will uncreep. If ever.
So, we've come to the slow realization that it's a better idea not to have a baby. Now. For a lot of reasons.
It seemed like a good idea. A great idea. Hundreds of years ago when we said yes.
But not now.